Start with the people you would want around the table, even without a wedding.
Make a list together
Write your lists separately, then bring them together. Choose a number you are both comfortable with before discussing invitations with anyone else.
Agree on a consistent approach
Talk about partners, children and extended family early. A shared approach makes individual decisions easier and avoids unexpected changes later.
Leave room for real conversations
You do not need to justify every invitation. A simple explanation that you are having a small celebration is usually enough. Tell people personally where the relationship calls for it.
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